Sunday, December 5, 2010

Learning to do new things...

I love learning to do new things. Especially things that have to with the arts involved in homemaking. How looming some projects seem at first; new vocabulary, new equipment, new skills. And above all, where will I find the time? Amazingly, once I'm over the learning hurdle; these new skills become just part of life and becoming efficient in them, a life long quest. Learning takes time up front but certainly saves time in the long run.

Years ago, I researched buying a grain mill and mixer, finding a source for wheat, and then book in hand going through the process step by step until I had successfully baked my own bread. After many flops, and lots of bread-crumb topped casseroles and salads with croutons, bread is baked here in our home each week either by me (rarely anymore) or one of the children. (I aim to teach them around age 9). We don't look at the how-to manuals anymore nor consult the recipe (unless we're trying something new).

Recently, I made cough syrup, which is something I've been aiming to do for several winters now. It was really quite simple once I had acquired the ingredients and watched a how-to video on the internet. Nothing smells better than fresh grated ginger...especially simmering.

Here's what:
1/2 lb. dried elderberries
1 cinnamon stick or 2 or 3 :)
5 whole cloves
2 cups water
2 tbs grated fresh ginger root
1 cup of honey
I also tossed in 2 pieces of licorice root
and a handful of wild cherry bark that I
had on hand.
Here's how:
bring all to a boil
simmer covered until reduced to half (20 to 30 mins)
strain through cheesecloth
label, store

I put mine in recycled brown glass bottles. Better to use glass than plastic and the dark glass helps preserve the properties of the herbs. Prior to this I had "Sambucol" syrup on hand. It is so expensive that I felt a bit stingy with it...definitely not willing to bestow the recommended dose (to all nine of us at home) on a a daily basis. This homemade version however, I KNOW costs less. Peter dutifully caught a cold just after I made this and either this stuff is working or wonderfully or it's not too bad of a bug. Time will tell whether this will become another must make item for me.

Next on the list to learn to make: Soy Candles!! We all love candles here. I recently bought several at a 40% discount and they were still around 11$ each!

Friday, November 26, 2010

My Great Big Beautiful Birthday Bowl

This being the day after Thanksgiving, our local little thrift store had it's annual "Day after Thanksgiving half off sale". Since we were around this year we went to it. It was Grace's idea. Her idea was, that if we went right away when it opened she could buy the huge old bowl that we saw last week for me, for my birthday. We did and she did. And now I have this beautiful huge fruit bowl to replace the three or four at-a-time bowls that I usually have around on my counters. I love it! When I thanked her she told me she'd like to inherit it someday...I had already thought of that.

Going places, thinking up and doing things, homemaking and just living with my daughters (and sons) is such a joy. I never imagined life would be so good, so blessed, so full!

I think this is the first request for inheritance I've had, means I'm getting older...that's what happens with birthdays.

Never regret growing older...it is a privilege denied to many!

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Night and Day Care

She just loved little Peter
Sometime in my early twenties, I formed the conviction that day care for children and for the old-- was bunk--that people should take care of their own! I determined to be a stay- at- home- Mom and that as opportunity would arise I would welcome my parents and grands to live with us as well.


My Grandma and I had never been close. I spent two months with her and Grandpa the summer I was 13 but other than that her visits were short and somewhat seldom. She spent her time traveling and with her senior friends.

But, Grandma came to live with us when she was 89 and I was 42, for the last 6 months of her life.

My Mom and my Aunt Carol had been taking care of her for a few years but it was getting hard to leave her at home when she went to work. Grandma wasn't safe, left the water running and things like that. So we offered to have her live with us not thinking she would because we were outspoken Christians and Grandma had given up her faith some 25 years earlier. I didn't think she'd want to risk having us preach to her or trying to "lead her back to the Lord". So, I was shocked when she took us up on the idea. When my Mom called and said she'd be coming to us, Grandma got on the phone and asked in her old lady voice "Are you prepared to take care of me 'til the day I die?" Well, that was the idea. We didn't feel prepared, just willing. We had alot to learn.
  Ruthie pushing her Great Grandma outside


We got her moved and situated in her own room, across the hall from ours. She joined us for meals and took outings on the deck but mostly we visited with her in her room.

A special meal with friends
After some weeks she began to ask questions and make comments about how the family was functioning. How Jeff lead and we followed. How I directed and the children helped and obeyed. How everything seemed to work together and run (pretty) smoothly. She started to enjoy being part of it all.

Three months into our time with her she called to me in the night one night, crying and tossing to and fro from a bad dream. In her dream she was being put into a body bag and thrown out into a corn field. In vain I tried to console her. She asked me to pray for her to have the peace she once knew and I did, but it didn't help, so I urged her to pray for herself. She refused, claiming that there was a black spot in her heart and she could not pray. Finally, I convinced her to pray and ask God to take away the spot and help her... AND HE DID!!! She began exclaiming immediately "I've got it! I've got it again! I've got back the PEACE that I once had!" Following this she began feebly singing the old hymn "Love Lifted Me". When she had sung all she knew she had me sing it too! Once I had sung all I knew she made me bring the hymnal in and sing every verse! Finally, she told me to go to bed, that she'd be alright now, that I needed sleep. But before I left she made me promise to tell Jeff and the children to come into her room first thing in the morning so that she could tell them what had happened. Agreeing to, I left her there singing herself to sleep.

Grandma's prayer

The following day she had me call my Mom and ask her to FedEx her old New Testament to her immediately. And I did. Next day she was clutching it to her breast and crying over it for a quarter of an hour. Then with magnifier in hand she began reading it again and again.
       

Jesus was alive and well and working in her heart. Forgiveness was sought for some of the biddy things she had said and done, and of course it was joyfully given! Thereafter we spent many precious times singing with her and reading to her from God's Word. Romans 8 being her favorite chapter.

We'll never be able to count the blessings we received in that short 6 months with Grandma. We learned lots about elder-care, lots of family history, lots of patience and lots about God. He is faithful to begin the good work He begins in us!


I was sinking deep in sin,
Far from the peaceful shore,
Very deeply stained within,
Sinking to rise no more;
But the master of the sea
Heard my despairing cry,
From the waters lifted me,
Now safe am I.

Love lifted me!
Love lifted me!
When nothing else could help,
Love lifted me....